The same #boilingwater that #softens the #potato#hardens the #egg.
It’s about what you’re made of, not the #circumstances
What do you do when you go through the fire, or are put in the hot water?
Does your #heart become soft, and you get closer to #God, you see how God brought this into your life, for you to turn and help others, you #critique yourself, and see what you can change to better yourself, you have #empathy for what others have said or done to you, #forgive them, knowing that they need to work on themselves, and it is them, not you….
Does your heart become hard, you become #bitter about what others have said about you or done to you, you become #angry at God for allowing it to happen, say you have your own body/life you can do what you want, #ridicule others, choose to play the #victim mentality to stay #angry/mad/sad and live in that place….
Remember either way you choose, you can still #season with lots of #love and grace and become even more better in the end also! 
