Web and Graphics Designer
Branding and Marketing Expert
Top Leader, Sales Trainer, Coach, Consultant
Motivational Speaker, Best-Selling Author
CopsWives, Wonderful Widowed Women
Co-Founder Gratitude Girls
Top Network Marketing Leader

Personal Development

“Does making your life better make it better for those around you? “

“Does making your life better make it better for those around you? “
 
That is a thought, isn’t it? We connect with, and talk with, associate with, do business with people every single day! Those people that in ANY WAY connect with you, does it make THEIR life better?
 
SOOO many things, and esp someone who has lost a spouse/significant other in their life — this connects with SO much more….I have noticed the last 5 years, I live my life MUCH more *on purpose*
 
I thankfully was raised in a wonderful home, great parents, great upbringing, great sisters, grew up, great marriage, great kids, etc, tremendously blessed…..
 
But what about now, what about that DASH will people say about you one day, what kind of difference for GOOD are you making in the lives of OTHERS that you touch? What GOOD is it, for them to have YOU as a part of THEIR life?
 
Incredible things to *ponder* — don’t ya think?

Building Relationships and Coincidences

#Relationships #Coincidence
Many people ask me all the time, why I spend so much time and money and effort to #KeepInTouch
 
This week, I traveled to East TN to not only get my hair done, with a stylist I have got to know and grown to love, but to visit one of my closest friends since I was 19 years old, and I got to have lunch w another lady on the road there with a girl I have been friends with probably over 5 years, and same thing since both of them don’t live close, I make an effort to contact when I am going that way to visit and reconnect with and build our relationship.
 
Facebook and other social media, texting and emails are great! I am very thankful for wonderful technology that helps me to keep in touch easier.
 
But I still #Love and #Cherish actual #cards in the mail as well as #inperson or #BellyToBelly as they say.
 
Today, I got a phone call from a man that I hadn’t spoke to in probably 10 years. He is still on my Keep in Touch, #ChristmasCard list.
 
In our short catch up talk – not only did he want to re-check in about possibly using my cards service for his #personal and #professional life, but also with talking, it was funny, I mentioned remembering him last week, and told him why, and he said, I just read a book on that, was able to give me that information for a health issue I have had, and then he also mentioned his daughter just lost her husband, and so I was able to give some info that might be able to help her, since I have walked in those shoes.
 
It is really amazing, when you stop to listen, and build those relationships. It not only will greatly improve your life emotional, spiritually, physically, personally, but financially and professionally.
 
Who just came across your mind while reading this note? Reach out to them today, build that relationship…..if it is *tough*…..that is even more of a reason…..you are not promised tomorrow to do it, and your life will be better if you do it today. <3

Entrepreneurship

Many people all the time ask me about why I work as much as I do, and I should take a break etc…..
 
I absolutely LOVE what I do in ALL my businesses!
 
In my web/graphic design and marketing company – I help many top clients in their field, rebrand and market on the internet to reach clients and propel their business to heights they never thought they could.
 
In my cards company, I show people and businesses how to effectively keep in touch better and build better relationships, to many times increasing their bottom line by 25% or more within months and getting their clients to give them endless referrals without asking.
 
In my speaking, coaching and training – I teach people on relationship marketing, keeping in touch, copswives to live that life better and understand him, christian wives to live that life better and what they can do to help theirself, him and their kids, widows how to walk in their new shoes, homeschool mom’s how to juggle, business people on time management and mindsets, and so much more!
 
And I still do many other things, but I LOVE what I do, so it’s not *like* work many times, but then also, I am working NOW, like many others *won’t* — so I don’t have to worry a much *later*, when many others *will*……
 
It is up to you! It is your choice! We make choices every day, that will predict and set our future for us, what do you want your next 5, 10, 15, 20 years to be like? Make the changes today that will propel you to a better life tomorrow.
#WeAllHaveChoices

Are you ready for Thanksgiving dinner?

Are you ready for your Thanksgiving dinner? Before you know it, it’s going to be Christmas and then 2018!

We have SO much to be grateful for!
 
I know I am grateful and thankful that my life, every single day, is filled with helping people to better their lives, focus on their future on how to enhance it, helping people take actions on their goals and dreams, creating business and passive income streams that help care for them and their families….
 
Many times, starting out, it *is* about the money, trying to support or help support yourself and your family to be better and cared for better….after awhile, you see it is far more important than the dollars in your bank account or theirs that you help, but about the difference for good you are making in the world and in others lives’ for better.
 
I am SO blessed, every single day, I get texts, emails, phone calls, private messages, and more from people who say, that something I said or shared – made an impact on their life, helped them to think or be better, or get closer to their spouse, or God or their kids, or made them more money, or helped them to help someone else….
 
Don’t wait for the new year to make those new years resolutions….you can start and make changes for better NOW……There is still almost 60 days of this year left…..start now, get moving, and finish this year STRONG, and start the new year on a STRONG step toward better for you – whatever that *step* in whatever *shoes* that is for you.
 
Most of all – be thankful and grateful for ALL God’s blessings in your life and around you – friends, family, house, car, and if nothing else…..that pretty blue vase on the wall. <3

Do you have the power to change it?

Next time you moan and complain about things you cannot control, next time you expect someone or something to be done for you or given to you, next time you are not grateful for the blessings you have, and next time you want TO QUIT on your self and your DREAMS remember this.

Get over it, pull up your boot straps, and thank GOD you have shoes on your feet and not bottles.
If something in your life is not going the perfect way you planned, then if you have the power to change it – do so! Do NOT talk about it, text about it, or think and dwell on it – that only attracts more of the same to you!
 
If you don’t have the power to change it, then tell God about it, or someone that does have the power – and then *leave it there*. If you don’t have the power, there is no reason for you to dwell on it.
 
If you do have the power to change it or do something about it – then DO IT! It is your life, it is up to YOU.
 
YOU CANNOT HELP SOMEONE ELSE UNTIL YOU FIRST ARE ABLE TO HELP YOURSELF!!!